Today is my mom's birthday, and as usual, she is working...but I hope she takes a few minutes to enjoy herself. It really is too bad that her birthday falls during tax season. It's always hard for her to relax from January to April. In honor of her birthday, I just wanted to share some of the things I love about her.
My mom is probably the busiest and most driven person I have ever met. Some days it really annoys me, especially when I see her stressed. I just want her to RELAX!! But most of the time, I am impressed and very proud of her. I have always sworn by the fact that Mom isn't happy unless she has 10 things going on. She wears many, many hats. How many people do you know that can juggle 4 different jobs- freelance writer/tax preparer/Taxpayer Advocacy Panel member/Chamber of Commerce employee- how does she find time to do all these jobs simultaneously?!
Mom and I have a very close relationship that has grown over the years. I know I can call her anytime and she's available to give advice (even if it's not what I want to hear) or just to listen. She is the first person I want to call when I have news, no matter how big or small. I value her opinion greatly. That's not to say we haven't had our differences...we can fight like the best of them! There have been days where I'm ready to rip her head off, and I am positive she would say the same about me. We may not talk for a couple days...or even weeks, but things always go back to normal. We always start talking again as if nothing happened. Mom, I hope you know that no matter what, no matter how many times we fight and say things we don't mean, you are one of my best friends and I love you dearly. I love that she has turned into a friend and not just a mom.
I am grateful for the fact that she pushes all her kids to be better people. She has always believed in me, no matter what...and she helps me out in whatever ways she can. I can count on her to proofread anything...and as a result, have it sound 10 times better than it started. She has a true gift with words. I wish I was as clever! And I can recall many late nights with her, whether it was making a prom dress for me, or helping me scrapbook. She sees the fun side of things, and is always up for a good time. She can talk to anyone, and often lights up the room with her stories. Mom is definitely hard to ignore!
She has pushed me to explore the world, both with hosting exchange students as well as giving me the opportunity to study and travel abroad. I attribute my love of travel to her. Like me, Mom is always up for a trip...be it a short drive or an overseas adventure. We have traveled all over the world together, from mountains to oceans to big cities, Paris to Dublin to Santiago. And I have truly enjoyed every place we've been together- mostly because she loves exploring and adventure. She is game to try anything, and I am happy I take after her in that respect! I'm looking to traveling abroad with her again sometime.
So here's to you on your birthday, Mom! I love you!
Some pictures that highlight Mom's adventurous spirit:
